OK, guys, here is what I want to talk about today. I want to talk about getting over your fear of approaching a girl. This is the number one thing that will make or break you. This is what will separate you from the rest of the chumps out there. You have to understand that there are so many guys that are unwilling to even talk to a girl. They get too caught up in the “what-ifs” and lose out on an opportunity right before them. What they need to know is that they have to keep putting themselves out there.
Here is the cold hard truth. You are going to get show down. You are going to crash and burn. Women will reject you. There is no getting over that. But the more that you put yourself out there, the more that you simply choose to get over your fear and make that initial approach, the more chances you have to get the girl. The more chances you have to take the girl home. The more chances you have to find the girl of your dreams.
But how do you get over this fear? Because that is the number one thing you are dealing with. If approaching a girl is that tough, you have to find a mental way to get over that hurdle. Here is what I suggest.
Practice! How? Talk to girls where ever you get the chance. The grocery store, the library, the coffee shop (especially the coffee shop)…practice this before you get to a bar. A good musician practices his instrument all the time to improve. And that is why you need to practice making contact with women. The first time may be nerve wracking, but after awhile it all becomes second nature.
When it comes to talking to women, practice really does make perfect. So take the time to talk to girls when you encounter them. Flirt with every woman you can. As you do, you will learn something about different women and what works. Once you see them smile you know that you’ve learned something that will make you so much more popular with women when you go out.